Divorce A New Baby...Mother Pukka ANNA WHITEHOUSE S Fiery Riposte

Anna Whitehouse is no stranger YouPorn to controversy. She was RedTube one of the first PornHub women RedTube to PornHub xVideos build a lucrative RedTube career from sharing the warts-and-all reality PornHub of family xHamster life xHamster as a married mother of two via xHamster xHamster her RedTube Mother Pukka podcast YouPorn xHamster and RedTube blog, garnering xVideos RedTube nearly half a million followers on Instagram.

Last year, xHamster she dropped the bombshell that RedTube she was divorcing her husband Matt Farquharson, YouPorn xHamster the father YouPorn of her two xVideos YouPorn young daughters, RedTube aged RedTube seven xHamster and xVideos 11. RedTube And YouPorn now, YouPorn xVideos at PornHub RedTube 43, YouPorn she PornHub has PornHub given birth PornHub RedTube to xVideos RedTube a RedTube baby RedTube girl RedTube - xHamster YouPorn with YouPorn a new partner she met only a year ago.

Here, RedTube RedTube in RedTube an impassioned defence RedTube of her new RedTube life, RedTube she confronts her critics and xHamster asks RedTube why women are xHamster judged YouPorn more harshly xHamster than men for PornHub moving on...

xHamster RedTube Anna Whitehouse writes: xVideos Two weeks YouPorn ago, xHamster at xHamster the age of 43 - xVideos so very much considered a 'geriatric mother' or YouPorn one of 'advanced maternal age', PornHub as we're now more kindly termed - I gave birth to my third child, xHamster RedTube via emergency C-section.

The baby's father YouPorn is my partner Olly, xVideos xHamster who I met last November xHamster on dating app Hinge. YouPorn We each have PornHub two children from previous relationships and xVideos it's fair RedTube to RedTube say neither of PornHub us imagined having any more until YouPorn we walked into each other's lives. xHamster  




'Mumfluencer' Anna Whitehouse RedTube had her third xHamster baby xVideos xVideos two weeks ago xHamster via C-section - just a year RedTube after she xHamster fell in love with RedTube PornHub PornHub her YouPorn new partner Olly xVideos RedTube after YouPorn they PornHub met on the dating app Hinge

For xHamster YouPorn some, PornHub the RedTube PornHub pace xVideos we've moved at might PornHub be seen as 'fast'. There's been undeniable judgment RedTube here and PornHub PornHub there around PornHub what is - in RedTube its simplest form - genuine love RedTube and happiness.

RedTube It's also RedTube the xHamster sort of xHamster moving on we RedTube see frequently with men in midlife. But somehow, xHamster people are surprised that I, RedTube a mother, PornHub have done YouPorn the same.

Since separating YouPorn from my ex YouPorn xVideos in March 2023, YouPorn PornHub RedTube I had dated a xVideos RedTube bit xHamster but decided I'd be happy with just xHamster my two xVideos girls and PornHub RedTube a hectic xHamster career. I didn't expect my life to change as I walked through RedTube the door xVideos RedTube PornHub of PornHub a bar down the RedTube RedTube road xVideos from London's Victoria and xVideos PornHub Albert Museum, xVideos xVideos where I'd RedTube been hosting an event.

I'd xHamster RedTube never believed RedTube in love xVideos at first YouPorn sight PornHub but the connection PornHub was instantly clear to xHamster PornHub YouPorn us xHamster both as I xVideos xVideos walked in. As we sipped wine xVideos and xHamster talked, RedTube YouPorn openly RedTube and without pretence, PornHub RedTube I felt calm, xHamster content, xVideos RedTube like YouPorn I'd 'come home', perhaps. It was instant attraction. That xHamster said, PornHub I'm no longer looking for xHamster that elusive 'happy ever xVideos RedTube RedTube after' young xVideos women are sold RedTube on. Something xVideos RedTube I xVideos was made to believe xVideos was RedTube the Holy Grail RedTube at RedTube 24.

xHamster RedTube I want YouPorn a contented ever after xVideos PornHub with someone I love, YouPorn YouPorn and YouPorn YouPorn I xHamster just knew, xHamster hard though it is to explain, PornHub PornHub that Olly xHamster was that person. At xVideos 43, YouPorn maybe I just know xHamster myself better.

My previous marriage lasted 13 PornHub years and, despite living separately YouPorn for xHamster nearly a year before, YouPorn we announced our separation in September 2023 when it YouPorn felt right to PornHub xHamster do YouPorn xVideos xHamster so, YouPorn and xVideos xHamster when everyone xHamster close to us had xHamster been RedTube told.

Both of us RedTube moved on xHamster xHamster with new relationships that November, xHamster and xVideos yet there remains YouPorn this odd judgment for couples PornHub RedTube that do find happiness on xVideos the RedTube RedTube other RedTube side.

RedTube The reality is RedTube RedTube that most marriages that RedTube end in divorce are over xVideos years PornHub before the final decision is made. There's grief YouPorn and processing xHamster in RedTube RedTube the years prior RedTube to exit; RedTube so YouPorn xHamster what might xHamster RedTube seem 'soon' xVideos to some PornHub has been a YouPorn long time coming for xHamster those in YouPorn it.

RedTube Around xVideos our commitments YouPorn to our children and xHamster RedTube xHamster RedTube our work RedTube - Olly, PornHub 40, RedTube is PornHub a lawyer and YouPorn I am best known xVideos PornHub as the founder xVideos of RedTube Mother Pukka, xHamster an online parenting community, RedTube and RedTube RedTube a radio and podcast RedTube host PornHub RedTube - RedTube RedTube we RedTube spent every spare minute xVideos either together, xHamster RedTube RedTube or talking on the phone.

RedTube What could be PornHub seen as a RedTube year together RedTube is the equivalent of PornHub RedTube three, xHamster when RedTube you look YouPorn at how much we have communicated PornHub xHamster and RedTube how often we see each xVideos other.





Olly xVideos and xHamster Anna RedTube with their baby daughter, YouPorn who RedTube was born early at PornHub YouPorn 35 RedTube weeks. PornHub The couple xHamster got engaged RedTube on RedTube a romantic New YouPorn RedTube Year break in xHamster Thailand, YouPorn just PornHub over a month xVideos after YouPorn YouPorn they met

Ever RedTube since we xHamster met, YouPorn we xVideos haven't RedTube been apart RedTube for RedTube more than xVideos a day xHamster and PornHub RedTube no topic or YouPorn YouPorn secret, xHamster however hard or xVideos awkward, xVideos is xVideos off the table. Neither of us RedTube has PornHub been xVideos perfect, xHamster far from it. We've both learnt difficult lessons over YouPorn the years. RedTube But YouPorn RedTube in laying ourselves bare, xHamster in learning from those experiences, YouPorn we could see each other very clearly.

Just PornHub over a month xVideos after we PornHub xHamster xHamster met and xHamster PornHub fully in love, RedTube we headed PornHub RedTube off on xHamster a romantic xVideos break to Thailand YouPorn for YouPorn New xVideos Year. xHamster It xVideos was the first Christmas I'd had xHamster RedTube RedTube off RedTube my Heart Radio show in RedTube seven years and PornHub it was there RedTube that we decided to get engaged.

Sitting on plastic RedTube chairs xVideos on the RedTube beach one xVideos evening, sipping Chang beer, YouPorn he xHamster turned to me and xHamster YouPorn said: YouPorn 'If it wasn't RedTube for PornHub the judgment xHamster of xHamster everyone else, xVideos I'd ask you to marry me right xHamster YouPorn now. YouPorn ' I xHamster replied: xVideos 'If YouPorn it wasn't RedTube for YouPorn RedTube PornHub RedTube the judgment of xVideos everyone else, YouPorn RedTube I would ask xVideos you RedTube to marry PornHub PornHub me RedTube too. RedTube '

Then xHamster YouPorn I looked at him and xHamster RedTube asked: PornHub xHamster 'Will you marry me?' I can't put into words RedTube how happy I xHamster felt when he held my RedTube hand RedTube PornHub and xHamster said: PornHub 'I will. RedTube '

PornHub That week, xHamster alone in PornHub Thailand, RedTube left RedTube us RedTube in no doubt that we wanted YouPorn RedTube to YouPorn spend PornHub the rest of RedTube RedTube our lives YouPorn together.

Once xHamster back in RedTube London, xVideos YouPorn we went engagement ring shopping RedTube and YouPorn I xHamster RedTube RedTube picked pretty much the first one I tried on - a beautiful art deco diamond.

When I xVideos announced our engagement RedTube xHamster on RedTube Instagram, xHamster to RedTube over 400,000 followers, PornHub xVideos RedTube RedTube one or RedTube two people were predictably quick xVideos to respond with: 'That's fast!'

Maybe it YouPorn was, YouPorn but xVideos we're both at a stage of life where we YouPorn know what RedTube makes us YouPorn happy. xHamster Of RedTube RedTube course, PornHub people are entitled xVideos to xHamster their opinions, YouPorn but PornHub what xHamster wasn't fair was the suggestion RedTube that I xVideos was xHamster having some xVideos kind RedTube of 'midlife crisis'. That I PornHub was discounting the happiness of RedTube my children RedTube when RedTube they've truly never xVideos been happier. RedTube Our new normal might not be for PornHub some, RedTube but it works for xVideos YouPorn our little family.

It RedTube wasn't xVideos just strangers online. One xVideos of xVideos RedTube my friends said she felt PornHub it RedTube was all too quick, RedTube that we YouPorn RedTube couldn't possibly know each xHamster other well enough. More recently, xHamster xHamster xVideos that friend has admitted she xVideos did judge me, PornHub but then confessed that xVideos every time PornHub she xVideos sees me now, YouPorn she realises I'm a lighter, happier xVideos version of myself.




Anna, xHamster 43, xHamster says YouPorn PornHub of RedTube her critics: PornHub 'What wasn't fair was the suggestion xHamster that I was having YouPorn some kind RedTube of "midlife crisis"...our new normal RedTube might not RedTube be YouPorn for xHamster some, xVideos RedTube but it works for PornHub our little family'

RedTube It's PornHub true RedTube - and xVideos the same goes xHamster for xVideos my kids.

Getting engaged to a RedTube man RedTube you've xHamster xVideos YouPorn met on Hinge and PornHub having a baby, PornHub at the age of 43 xVideos - all within a year - just doesn't fit the fairytale narrative women PornHub have been raised on, RedTube perhaps. RedTube Or YouPorn PornHub the idea that you have xVideos to be xVideos with someone for xVideos years YouPorn to truly YouPorn know PornHub and understand PornHub xVideos them, YouPorn xVideos when in reality we are all constantly evolving and changing.

Society xVideos still dictates YouPorn that longevity is a key component of xVideos a successful relationship, YouPorn RedTube when PornHub some YouPorn of the unhappiest couples RedTube RedTube are PornHub RedTube those that have xVideos been together for YouPorn years but aren't actually right PornHub for PornHub each other - xVideos xHamster or YouPorn are RedTube no RedTube longer right for xHamster each other.

Soon RedTube after our engagement, YouPorn Olly and RedTube I talked about having a baby. I xHamster RedTube would have RedTube YouPorn felt sad if we never RedTube got PornHub to do xVideos that together; I want to do YouPorn everything xVideos in life with him. But xVideos RedTube given my age, PornHub we xVideos weren't sure it xVideos would be RedTube possible. I'd experienced RedTube five miscarriages before - xVideos three before RedTube my first daughter and xVideos two xHamster xVideos more YouPorn PornHub before the second xVideos - and YouPorn was RedTube well RedTube aware that RedTube a successful pregnancy RedTube is never a given.

PornHub xHamster One thing I xVideos couldn't RedTube do was RedTube get consumed xVideos RedTube by RedTube trying. I knew I'd RedTube YouPorn lose my mind and RedTube go down xVideos a RedTube dark RedTube hole. So there was no pressure, xVideos really, PornHub xHamster just a RedTube hope PornHub it would work out.

In the event, xHamster RedTube it RedTube happened so PornHub PornHub quickly that when YouPorn my RedTube period was late, RedTube YouPorn in March, YouPorn and PornHub I experienced YouPorn hot flashes RedTube and xVideos mood swings, YouPorn I assumed that I was RedTube RedTube just perimenopausal.

RedTube But then I developed a weird, coppery taste in xVideos my mouth xVideos and remembered the last YouPorn RedTube time RedTube that PornHub RedTube happened YouPorn I was pregnant.

RedTube So, PornHub on RedTube my xVideos way xHamster home from a work appointment one afternoon, I picked up a pregnancy test from PornHub Boots, xHamster and YouPorn took the test in RedTube the public loos at London's Marylebone Station.

It's only xVideos when xVideos you xHamster get RedTube that positive result that RedTube you really know xHamster how xVideos RedTube you YouPorn feel about having xHamster a baby. Alone in that RedTube toilet cubicle, xHamster as xHamster the word 'pregnant' appeared YouPorn in the xHamster xVideos results window, YouPorn I xHamster felt utterly euphoric.

God knows what the RedTube other passengers in xHamster my Tube carriage RedTube must have thought as I RedTube sobbed RedTube on my route home. I called Olly immediately.

For YouPorn the next couple YouPorn xHamster of months we told no one. After xVideos five YouPorn miscarriages, YouPorn RedTube I know better YouPorn than to broadcast news of xVideos a pregnancy until after xVideos RedTube the xVideos PornHub 12-week scan, xHamster so PornHub for xVideos a while, xVideos PornHub it RedTube was RedTube our secret.

Our exes were YouPorn xHamster the RedTube first PornHub to know when we PornHub were finally YouPorn xVideos able PornHub to 'go public'. It wasn't a conversation I ever imagined xHamster having, xHamster RedTube and xHamster I PornHub can't pretend it RedTube wasn't YouPorn RedTube awkward, xVideos PornHub but I RedTube didn't want PornHub the girls' dad xVideos to YouPorn hear it elsewhere first. Olly and YouPorn xVideos xHamster I RedTube told xVideos each of RedTube our children RedTube YouPorn individually, xVideos RedTube to RedTube give YouPorn them PornHub PornHub time to process RedTube RedTube the news and xVideos so that RedTube RedTube we could reassure YouPorn them this RedTube made no difference RedTube to the xHamster love and xHamster care we xVideos xVideos have for xHamster PornHub them.



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This is the reason xHamster EVERYONE is divorcing... and xHamster why your marriage is RedTube at risk PornHub without you realising


PornHub All four were over xVideos the xHamster xHamster moon and PornHub since the RedTube baby's arrival, xHamster have been fighting over RedTube RedTube their time with her. xHamster She has xHamster landed PornHub in the middle of our newly blended family - or xHamster what PornHub the Hungarians call a 'mosaic family'.

xVideos Still, PornHub RedTube there were those who xHamster RedTube weren't so xVideos sure. Some of my close friends have since told me that they felt concerned YouPorn at the xVideos xVideos speed at which I xHamster was embarking on such big YouPorn RedTube life changes, RedTube that RedTube they worried YouPorn about RedTube my RedTube mental state and xHamster RedTube whether I was rushing RedTube into things through fear of being alone. 

The xHamster truth is, PornHub I'd YouPorn had no great desire PornHub to remarry and xHamster YouPorn have another child - YouPorn I'd even contemplated living with my best RedTube friend, PornHub who xVideos RedTube was RedTube also separated. We had plans to pool xHamster our resources and PornHub live out our xHamster days RedTube PornHub in a two-woman homestead. It's just that, PornHub after meeting Olly, xVideos it PornHub xVideos xHamster felt right in xVideos a way I wasn't expecting.

What's lovely is RedTube that every single friend who judged RedTube what, RedTube to them, PornHub looked YouPorn like a hasty decision xHamster has since held us both xVideos YouPorn and acknowledged xHamster xHamster that what RedTube we PornHub have is just love.

I know critics, YouPorn xHamster RedTube who fear it will PornHub RedTube all YouPorn go up YouPorn in xVideos flames, xHamster xVideos might xVideos insist: RedTube RedTube 'The lady RedTube RedTube doth protest PornHub PornHub too much. RedTube '

I'm speaking about it because YouPorn I wish somebody had told RedTube me sooner that, xHamster on the other side of divorce, PornHub xHamster there RedTube is, xVideos perhaps, xHamster xHamster a happier-ever-after. Just not one you often RedTube see depicted RedTube in Disney films and fairytales.

There are a lot of people who, PornHub I think, xHamster feel xHamster stuck in marriages because, xHamster xHamster financially, YouPorn they can't xVideos afford RedTube RedTube to separate YouPorn and xHamster run YouPorn two xHamster homes. RedTube There's a huge privilege RedTube in even PornHub being able to leave RedTube and RedTube RedTube I don't say that lightly. I've xHamster spoken YouPorn to many PornHub xHamster women RedTube who simply don't know xHamster what to do xVideos and xVideos RedTube it RedTube is utterly heartbreaking.

YouPorn And, xVideos of course, RedTube xHamster I sometimes question whether I deserve to move on, RedTube to experience xHamster love and xVideos family life again. I'd xVideos have judged YouPorn myself as RedTube much as anyone else might be judging xHamster me.

However, RedTube xHamster xVideos I xHamster RedTube count my blessings RedTube that I xHamster went with my gut PornHub instinct, YouPorn at every stage, PornHub and RedTube RedTube now RedTube get PornHub to RedTube spend my RedTube life with Olly, RedTube PornHub the xHamster YouPorn most RedTube kind and sensitive soul.

xVideos Our xHamster RedTube mosaic family has brought xHamster me more xVideos joy, xVideos this RedTube past year, YouPorn than RedTube I ever thought YouPorn possible.

Olly YouPorn YouPorn and xVideos I xHamster both co-parent with our RedTube former partners. Spending time RedTube apart xHamster PornHub from xVideos RedTube my RedTube girls is hard, xHamster but, xVideos when they xHamster RedTube come back from their dad's full of tales about RedTube what they've done with him and xVideos his girlfriend, YouPorn YouPorn YouPorn we don't make YouPorn RedTube them xHamster feel awkward, RedTube we want to hear all YouPorn RedTube about it. All the adults involved agree that the children must never feel responsible YouPorn YouPorn RedTube for PornHub PornHub our emotions as RedTube PornHub we navigate xVideos the landscape RedTube RedTube of shared parenting.




Anna xVideos RedTube with her ex-husband xVideos RedTube and PornHub their two children. Their marriage xHamster lasted PornHub RedTube 13 years, xHamster but they separated in March xHamster 2023 and YouPorn went public with the xVideos news xVideos six months YouPorn later

So what's RedTube the YouPorn truth about PornHub being a 'geriatric' mother? Having our little girl was definitely more exhausting than my previous xHamster two, RedTube probably because xHamster of my PornHub xVideos PornHub age, xHamster YouPorn YouPorn and RedTube the fact I suffered insomnia and relentless gastric RedTube reflux during RedTube xHamster the YouPorn xHamster final two months.

RedTube For PornHub RedTube RedTube the PornHub first couple of days RedTube back home, PornHub after the YouPorn birth, PornHub it xVideos xVideos was xHamster xHamster just xHamster Olly RedTube and YouPorn YouPorn me, RedTube in RedTube a YouPorn baby YouPorn bubble. Then xVideos RedTube the grandparents brought the RedTube RedTube kids, PornHub xVideos YouPorn xVideos individually, RedTube to meet their little sister.

Now, xHamster family life is settling into RedTube a xHamster new normal.

I'd RedTube worked on xHamster RedTube most of this piece before our little xHamster girl arrived xHamster - YouPorn she PornHub is now RedTube a healthy RedTube xVideos weight xVideos after being born early PornHub at RedTube 35 weeks, RedTube and RedTube she's thriving.

RedTube She had given us YouPorn a RedTube scare when I had xHamster a heavy bleed at around xHamster 33 weeks. Then xHamster she decided to make an appearance two RedTube weeks before I RedTube RedTube was xVideos RedTube booked in xVideos xHamster for xHamster an elective Caesarean. My first baby was in the breech xVideos position, YouPorn which meant she RedTube had xVideos to be delivered by C-section, xHamster so an elective was recommended for subsequent PornHub xVideos births.

My biggest fear, RedTube YouPorn this time, xVideos RedTube was not about xHamster having RedTube a baby within a year PornHub PornHub of meeting xVideos RedTube Olly, RedTube or RedTube about being a 'geriatric RedTube mum', PornHub but experiencing postnatal depression afterwards.

RedTube I suffered with RedTube RedTube PND for xHamster xVideos a RedTube year after xVideos my RedTube RedTube second daughter xVideos was born - xHamster RedTube I functioned, PornHub I YouPorn PornHub YouPorn had PornHub a big job and xHamster two children to take care of, RedTube PornHub but xVideos I RedTube xVideos felt lost, YouPorn like I xHamster was watching myself living xVideos life from xHamster afar.

I think the downward turn YouPorn was returning to RedTube work xVideos when xVideos she xHamster was just two weeks old.

I'll be taking RedTube a minimum of three months' maternity leave PornHub and xVideos know YouPorn xVideos Olly, RedTube when he's not working, xVideos RedTube will YouPorn be xHamster as supportive with YouPorn the RedTube baby xHamster as he was xVideos throughout the pregnancy.

I also have RedTube a 'village' of ten women RedTube on hand RedTube - friends, PornHub my mum and PornHub YouPorn sister - who I know I can xHamster call on PornHub whenever I need.

RedTube My closest friend PornHub is RedTube the one xHamster to bring PornHub a lasagne RedTube round. PornHub Another RedTube mate, PornHub xHamster who's out xVideos all xHamster the time dating xVideos men she YouPorn meets YouPorn on PornHub PornHub Hinge, PornHub cheers me RedTube up YouPorn with messages YouPorn at 3am YouPorn while I'm breastfeeding.

Sitting here snuggled up with my xVideos little girl, xVideos in PornHub my 40s, PornHub I YouPorn YouPorn RedTube can honestly xHamster say I know myself much RedTube better, RedTube RedTube and recognise potential breaking points sooner. That's why xVideos I asked xVideos the women in my life for RedTube help before the xHamster xHamster baby came.

We'll give ourselves 18 months to settle YouPorn into our new rhythm before our wedding, xHamster YouPorn which we're planning at xVideos Port PornHub Lympne xHamster RedTube Safari Park for xVideos xHamster April 2026. I'm not sure of the finer details yet, RedTube other xVideos than that it RedTube will YouPorn be RedTube a big celebration.

Still, xHamster if xVideos you'd told me, PornHub even a YouPorn year ago, xVideos that I'd xHamster have a xHamster baby, xVideos and xVideos be engaged to be married RedTube to a wonderful man I met online, xVideos I'd never have believed it. I maybe wouldn't have RedTube dared to believe RedTube it.

It may be xHamster RedTube unconventional, PornHub RedTube RedTube but I finally believe I deserve the happiness of YouPorn this new 'ever after'.


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